If there is a better way to give birth, then why aren’t ALL of the birth professionals across our nation working together to make birth better. This idea is logical but seems to still be a difficult task to achieve. I am in awe of those of us, as birth professionals, who still let our ego’s get in the way and our pride and fear make the decisions about birth. When will all of us, as care providers for Moms and babies, accept that birth is shrouded in mystery and that it requires being comfortable in the unknown to be able to make the best decisions for them?
When fears blind our ability to be present in the pregnancy/birth experience, how can we expect that our choices will be the ideal? They won’t. Decision based in fear may be a motivation for change but fear brings with it an inability to see the whole picture in any situation. Without seeing the whole picture, our choices are then skewed and the consequences of those choices could have profound effects at the birth.
Home birth can be as safe, if not safer in some regards, as a hospital birth. Many times, when dealing with a low risk, healthy Moms… staying home might help keep her birth safer. How might that be you ask? Well, I’ll tell you. Birth is a normal, natural physiological process. When we mess with birth….when we induce it too soon, when we drug the birth experience in any way, when we take a women OUT of her safe environment, when we manage and control birth is when we cause problems. Its that simple…
Ob/Gyn’s are phenomenal at what they do, especially when they stay within their scope of practice. Once they decide to go outside that scope and care for the healthy, low risk women….is when complications may come about. Unnecessary procedures and testing, which carry lots of false results, could potentially take a healthy, low risk women to a high risk pregnancy. The down side to that is once a women is considered high risk her WHOLE pregnancy and birth experience change DRAMATICALLY. Her freedoms and ability to make conscious choices for herself are then promoted lathered in fear.
Birth is meant to be left alone. When making love, interruption is a invasive and disturbing. It halts the process of connection and orgasm and completely shifts the dynamic of the experience in a very deep way. Birth is no different. To interrupt the birth process, to disturb and disrupt it….forever changes it.
Interesting article below on the truth of the safety of home birth. Home birth is ABSOLUTELY safe. And guess what….when a women and her partner come together making healthy life style choices in every way…..then home birth can EVEN become safer. Handing back the responsibility of pregnancy and birth to women and families will stimulate the shift we’re needing to make birth better in our country.
That would mean that we’re using education as a forum for change. First off, knowing what is truly evidence based and what’s not, makes a difference in what decisions you will and won’t make for you and your pregnancy/birth. Education, intuition and application are the answers for safer, happier births.
Knowing the myths and facts of birth will ease fears and open new doorways of understanding. What it really is and what its really not. An excellent book for those of you wanting to know your choices is called “The Thinking Women’s Guide to a Better Birth.” Those Henci is a powerful women and opinionated, her book shows volumes of evidence based research about birth. She goes over the risks and benefits of every birth environment. It teaches you the majority of your birth choices and then let’s you decide what you think works best for you.
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I hope you enjoy the article. I did! I also hope that before blindly following the information you’ve been told about your pregnancy and birth, DO YOUR HOMEWORK, EAT HEALTHY, EXERCISE, TRUST BIRTH, RELEASE FEARS and most importantly, RELAX and open yourself to the experience. When you do, the world is at your feet. You will gain something within yourself you never thought possible. Try it…..I promise, you won’t be disappointed!
In Peace,
Rachel
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